There are some truths many people accept, but I suspect another illusion. I feel I'm in relation to Plato's cave where people believe in a truth they later found was not true. I believe that being a single is better than be married, because it's more freedom and less responsibilties than a married person. In contrast, many people think that being married is more benefits because they might become a more responsible person, feel more security and get more concerned or helps from each other when they're in troubles and sick. However, I changed my belief, and agree with people who think that being married is better than single. Here is an evidence that causes the change of my point of view.
My aunty, Angela, who was married with Henry 2 years ago. Before her marriage, her life was messed up. She was living alone and being ouside most of the days. She couldn't control herself by spending money alot which caused her financial difficulties. After she met Henry, they fall in love and get married. It makes her life totally different from before and turning in a right way. For instance, she became a responsible person on family organization, and get control with her spending. When she gets sick, she would be concerned and taken care from her husband. Unlikely, there's nobody took care of her while she got sick during her single period. Also, she feels more safety than she lived alone before. They share their worries form each other, and solve them together. They seem very happiness in their marriage.
Over all, I recognized being married is not bad as I thought, depends on what I heard and be convinced by my aunty's experience. I always think that marriage is horrible and reject it before my aunty told me that. It could be an awsome life if we handle it well.
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